Christmas has always been a special time for me.

It’s that time of the year when loved ones living far away come home (though not every year, but this is typical in many Filipino families), when you wake up at 04:00 in the morning to hear mass starting December 16 (known as Simbang Gabi) followed by eating breakfast with your companions (which normally includes the famous Filipino rice cakes – Bibingka and Puto Bumbong), when you hang your parols and wait for carolers to ring the bell, when malls close at 12:00 midnight to give way to your holiday rush, when you visit different spots in your city to watch different kinds of light shows and Christmas events, and when you gather everyone together in your dining for your Noche Buena while listening to Christmas songs (possibly with Jose Mari Chan on your playlist). This Filipino way of approaching Christmas has always been fun for me, but now that I am a mother, I am looking at more specific traditions that I can do with my son.

These traditions I share below have won me so far, and truth be told, I don’t know if I will do all of them, or just choose one that will stick with us for the rest of our lives. But before I even forget them, let me share my finds here.

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This is probably my most favorite! For a book lover, this is heaven on Earth. Imagine getting even just one book, and having the whole night to read it?! I should mention that this is done while also eating chocolate on the side. In one comment on THIS Facebook post, a woman said “It is the best. We exchange gifts the 24th of December, (called Aðfangadagur). And we spend Christmas day reading in our pajamas, eating leftovers, ginger cookies and drinking hot choccolate.” I am so sold. I hope my son will be, too. To learn more about this tradition, click THIS.

I want to do this and also, read one story from an inspiring book (something like Chicken Soup for the Soul, or Christmas Miracles) for the whole family each year.

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I learned about this from Amy (Midwest Montessori, Montessori Parent), and if you’re a Christian/Catholic family (well, Christmas is really a Christian celebration), this is such a great way to wait for the coming of Jesus. What is a Jesse tree? Amy wrote this in her blog: “So a Jesse tree is just a small tree with an ornament for each day of advent which represents a part of the BIG story leading up to Christ’s birth, starting with the beginning of time. As a Christian Montessori family, I thought this was a good way to make the stories tangible. The kids love finding the new ornament and then listening to me read the story in the accompanying book.”

THIS is the shop she recommended for the ornaments, and THIS is the book they use. She also mentioned that she likes THIS simple advent tree.

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I learned this from Monica (Monica Manifests, Waldorf Parent). She and her children decorate the Nativity Set and read stories from the book “The Light In The Lantern” to accompany the living set! She said, “Note that when we celebrate advent, we patiently wait for the arrival of baby Jesus (who isn’t born yet!) so the baby isn’t there, but will appear on his BIRTH day.”

Another mom does it a little differently. Esther of Story Of This Life shared that starting last year, her daughters would receive small gifts under the tree or on their bed, etc with one character from the Nativity story. “It starts with an empty stable and slowly, day by day, they add each piece to the story, reading each scripture passage behind each piece each day. Finally, on Christmas day, they open their final gift to complete their nativity – Baby Jesus!” Esther shared a beautiful file for your date and item guide. You can find it HERE.

What a beautiful way to wait and celebrate the coming of Jesus, right?

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Advent literally means “coming”, and although it was originally a 40-day period of fasting to prepare new Christians for baptism in January, the Roman Church moved the tradition to December (for the birth of Jesus) by the 6th century.

There are multiple ways to anticipate the coming of Jesus/ Christmas!

For Christians who are strict with dates, it begins on the fourth Sunday before Christmas. For some families, they begin on December 1. For some, they just do a countdown of the 12 days before Christmas. How early your countdown will be really depends on you.

Many families just give a little gift each day of December (or 12 days before Christmas) and the main gift on December 25. Personally, however, especially if you have time, I like the idea of a trivia or activity-laden advent countdown!

If your child is in the stage of loving trivia, I think this ADVENT CALENDAR from Why Christmas (twitter version HERE) is a good source! If you’re looking at different kinds of fun activities, I think this ADVENT BOX from Nicole Kavanaugh serves as good guide (which you can of course tweak depending on what suits your family). I also prepared my rough list for next year. You can check it HERE.

Christmas Eve 2016 with my side of the family

This is a non-negotiable for all of us, I think! Christmas is a wonderful season to celebrate with the people you love most. In our family, this is how it works: We spend Christmas dinner with my in-laws, then we go home to spend Christmas Eve with my side of the family. Then, we wake up early to spend Christmas morning with my husband’s immediate family. For lunch, we spend it with my clan. This is the time of the year when we get to see everybody – cousins, aunts, uncles, and it’s festive, yes, but it could also be too busy.

For some families, I like the idea of having a games night as part of the bonding (board games, trivia about the family, charades, etc), or exchanging gifts a la White Elephant. I learned that Nicole’s family’s tradition is to open a new board game on Christmas and play it all day. My family in the US waited for the Christmas Eve countdown by having a trivia game about our family (I thought it was so fun, cause we were also playing with them through Skype – and I learned a lot of things about our family members!).

Personally, I like what my sister and her husband did one Christmas, and they invited me. Sometime before December 25, they gathered their Christian friends and together, we just talked about how the year was for us – what did we like? What did we think we could have improved? What were we thankful for? And then we moved on to what we looked forward to for the year ahead, and what we wished for each other.

It was simple and beautiful. It reminded me of the real spirit of Christmas. And it’s something I want to do with my own family every year.

So there, those are my top 5 Christmas traditions. Would love to hear yours!

Want to get more ideas? You can click HERE and HERE for more! For a good source on everything Christmas, I like THIS site.




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  1. Nice ideas! The last one is what we usually do every year with a little gift giving ❤️ this year though, we had “25 ways to give love” campaign where we would do one good act each day based on a Bible verse. For example, for day 1, our reference verse was “Freely ye have received, freely give.”
    —Matthew 10:8

    What we did was we donated anonymously to a charity. Other things you can do include spending some time with a family member or good friend (no gadgets).

    And then for day 2, the verse was “I was thirsty, and ye gave me drink.”
    —Matthew 25:35

    We gave out bottled water to street sweepers.

    I loved how we were able to overcome selfishness because of this activity and we’re really planning to make it a yearly tradition. ❤️

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